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This article is about brides changing their last name. For name changes in general, see name change.

In Western culture , a majority of brides undergo a name change after their wedding.

[edit] Criticisms

Many people have criticized the practice of brides changing their names as archaic and unfair. Men rarely change their last names, and society expects a woman's last name to match her husband's.

Many brides change their last name legally, but continue to use their maiden name professionally. This can create legal hassles for a bride, especially with health care and other benefits provided through work.

Women in academia often choose not to change their names. This is for practical reasons: many academics have published papers under their maiden name and are reluctant to lose the reputation they've built up. In addition, some women in academia report pressure from her peers not to change her name.

Women professionals who have established their names in the marketplace are also less likely to change their names. This includes doctors, attorneys, and other trade professionals.

[edit] Process

Changing a bride's name is generally a four step process. Details may vary by state or locality:

Local

• Get a copy of the marriage certificate
• Change the name on driver's license

Federal

• Change the name on social security card
• Change the name on passport.

[edit] Tips

• If you prefer to keep your name, don't be afraid to bring it up!
• Many men prefer their brides to change their names; this is true of even some modern and forward thinking men. Be careful about assuming what your future husband thinks about name changes.

[edit] Weddingbee Posts

New York City

• My Name Is... by Mrs. Bee